CATALYST:
something that causes activity between two or more persons or
forces without itself being affected.
a person whose talk, enthusiasm, or energy causes others to be
more friendly, enthusiastic, or energetic.
The word "catalyst" is the one description that I can comfortably accept for myself. Presumably that's what made me a halfway decent bookseller; my ability to put people together or person and book successfully.
I suppose it's this quality that makes me wish I could gather together into one room all of you good people who leave comments, so that you could come to know each other. For, truth to tell, I think your comments make more interesting reading that what you're commenting on and I suspect that several of you would be compatible.
The best I can do here is to list some of your names, telling how you came into our world. But before I do that, you must realize that there is an equal number of readers who for whatever reason don't leave comments and they are just as precious to me, even in their silence. I am honored that you take the time to join us by reading what I send out most days. Thank you.
ANONYMOUS...........One in particular, judging by her writing, is
Lisa, a long time bookshop customer who,
after the sale of the store remains a friend.
A NON Y MOUSE.....A lady, my age, who lives in Minnesota. We
met through looking at each other's photos
in flickr. She's an artist, plays the accordian
and has great legs and wears Harry Potter
glasses. She's the wife of
TED............................Also a resident of MN, a retired art
professor at the college level. Every day
for the past few years he has taken a photo
of the lake, standing in the same place. I
shamelessly tease him about the
ho-humness of the exercise even though I
suspect it's brilliant.
JOANNE ...................A customer in the bookshop's early days, we
have reconnected because she's the best
friend of the daughter of the woman I share
Manor library duties with.
EDIE...........................We met on an Elderhostel weekend in
Austin, TX back in 2003 and have kept in
touch ever since.
DENISE IN C'VILLE..Years ago, maybe 10 or so, a small group
of people got together, online, with the
common interest of writings by Anne
Lamott, especially "Bird by Bird". We
called ourselves The Birds. With a couple
of exceptions, we've never met face-to-face
FRENCH SPEAKING
LADY...........................A staff member here at the Manor.
MJ.................................Now living in Vermont, MJ served on my
staff for some time and was one of my
favorite employees.
KAREN.........................Mr. Bob's niece who lives in Whittier.
A BRUSH WITH
COLOR..........................Another flickr friend, one who travels for
Duke University. We had the good luck to
meet her when Pasadena was on her
itinerary. She's a wonderful watercolorist.
Click on her name to visit her blog.
#409................................A Manor resident who lives next door.
VAL................................I've not actually met Val. She lives in PA
and is the reader who sent flowers when
Mr. Bob was hospitalized.
LYNNE...........................A longtime customer and friend who is an
accomplished violinist.
SHELLEY.......................Mr. Bob's niece who lives in Chino Hills
SUZAN............................No idea how she found us from her home
in Great Britain.
DAVE...............................A previous neighbor, the one who has a
front yard full of mining paraphernalia
gathered from the High Sierra when he
was a camp director there.
THE WRINKLIES............Harvey&Sheila from England who visit
the USA each year for an extended time.
That's their name when we correspond.
We respond as The Wobblies.
KATHY G. .......................When new residents move to the Manor,
great help is supplied by Gentle
Transitions. Kathy G. made our move
as painless as possible.
SUSAN H. ..........................Our dear and precious daughter in
Alaska. The women in our family are
the verbal ones. The men are more
taciturn.
LIDOLIL..............................Another unmet flickr friend who
resides in England. She's of my age
group and is a belly dancer!
COWTOWNER....................Lonna is the daughter of our once-
upon-a-time best friends, both long
gone from this plane of existence.
MICHEO..............................A flickr friend from Spain. She's the
teacher who asked permission to
use my blog as her high school
students' lessons because it's more
interesting than the text book.
How I wish I could reserve the large room on the Lower Level here and invite you to come see us, all at the same time. I'm pretty sure you'd enjoy each other.
I can pull up statistics about my blog. The following shows the activity for one week. I can only imagine that some them were called up by mistake for I don't know a soul in Russia or Argentina and the countries that are green show activity.
Again, thank you for being part of the Manorisms community.
I feel as if I know some of them already, Jane, from their kind, thoughtful comments.
ReplyDeleteHow the world has become smaller and smaller with the internet...even in the countries where you don't know anybody, you are there.
ReplyDeleteFriendship is enough of a goal - doesn't have to be brilliant literature. In the end, it might be the very best use of this life.
#409
Yes, we have had some great times together on the internet. I give you a hard time like you do to Ted. We know how to have fun ! Thanks for the affirmation. Love and hugs A Non Y Mouse
ReplyDeleteJane I would love nothing better than to meet everyone of these people. We all have you in common and that is such a lovely thought. I love your blog. My day would not be complete without it! Count me in if you get that room reserved. Susan - 5th Generation California Gal, friend of Jo of T.O., Timi & OUAT in the 60's !
ReplyDeleteThat was very satisfying for my curiosity! Thank you Aunt Janie! I love your blog and often tell friends that my aunt, an excellent writer, does a cool blog. Love, Shelley
ReplyDeleteYou are a catalyst indeed and you instigate great mind-chemistry ! Thank you for this blog Jane - you make me laugh, sometimes cry, and I always look forward to reading it - even though I so rarely comment - I don't possess your communication skills !
ReplyDeleteAwww...what a great post. Again.
ReplyDeleteThere are MANY words that can describe you, Jane!
I wonder who your Latvian fan is? :0)
~MJ
I love this!! Wow..all your fans have come together through twists and turns and moments that pass, but people remain. I am pleased to know your niece Shelley lives in my town!! Nice! I know as your posts continue, i will look back to this one to remember who is writing. I took my first college class in reentry to school online. I found 2 persons i later met in person and we already felt like friends. Connection comes from blogs like yours Jane, where people share honestly as they reply to their thoughtful, honest, engaging blogger!
ReplyDeleteWell, I don't know what to say other than Jane, you're damn good company.
ReplyDeleteAnd your niece as well, Aunt Jane. :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a great post, Jane. Thanks for including my name here(with other name, by the way). I am the Spanish teacher who uses your blog as part of the reading practise of my students of English.
ReplyDeleteI feel really proud to be a member of your club of fans, and friends, I expect!!
I am a bit late to the party, (My excuse is a good one---a week of flu and jury duty!), but I have to compliment Jane on another thoughtful post and say what a pleasure to meet you all and learn a bit more about you!
ReplyDeleteYes, this is Lisa---of La Canada, then Simi Valley, then Thousand Oaks, NOW Moorpark, all in 2 years! (My hobby is moving.)
I would post as Lisa, instead of Anon, if I had the technical ability to know how!!!!